Philadelphia, PA (Sports Network) - At this point in the summer, just about
every conference has had or is completing its media day and preseason
festivities.
The players have finished summer workouts, coaches have hibernated and caught
up on months of lost sleep, and fans have a few more weeks to have spirited
conversations with co-workers and rivals.
But for one conference, one team and hundreds of other members of a specific
college football community, the start of the preseason will take a back seat
to an event being held Thursday night, a "Welcome Home Paul Gorham" tribute
fund-raiser for his medical hardship.
About seven months ago, Sacred Heart head football coach Paul Gorham's life
completely changed in a matter of weeks. Just after the winter holidays in
early January, Gorham was diagnosed with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis, a lung
disease, which as of now, has no know cure or cause. Gorham had to spend time
in Ohio at the Cleveland Clinic after difficulties with his breathing.
Shortly after, Gorham was in need of a double-lung transplant and finally
found a donor in early March. After the operation, the 51-year-old found out
that both of his legs would need to be amputated below his knees because the
lower half of his body had been seriously impacted by his condition.
After facing every obstacle and problem along the way, Gorham finally made it
back home last month, thanks to coaching colleagues from Brown University, and
numerous others along the way.
Many coaches spoke on Gorham's behalf Thursday during the NEC preseason
teleconference. Although the conference was announcing preseason teams, polls
and other offseason news, few things seemed as important as the respect
everyone in the conference had for Gorham.
"I don't know if admiration is the right word to use, but the way he has held
up, kept his family together and responded to adversity, I think he's a model
for all of us," Bryant coach Marty Fine said. "I think we all at times have a
tendency to complain about the hand were dealt. Things happen in life but I've
never had to go through something like that. I hope when my time comes to
handle adversity, it can be just a portion of what he has been able to
do ... how he's handled that is nothing short of spectacular."
Gorham's widespread support has come from all over - family, friends, coaches
and hundreds more from the football community. The amount of people who have
come to his side is no surprise to longtime Albany coach Bob Ford.
"Paul was a big strapping guy, he obviously played college football at a high
level, was in pretty good condition and all of a sudden to have him go through
this, I think it's a statement of how many friends Paul has had along the
way," Ford said. "They've really rallied around him."
Mark Nofri, who enters his 18th season at Sacred Heart, has taken over as the
acting head coach. He explained this offseason was an important learning
experience for everyone involved in the program.
"Coach Gorham wasn't just my boss, him and I have become pretty good friends
over the past nine years and we talked about his situation with the kids
through winter workouts and spring practice," Nofri said. "How you need to
overcome adversity, and nothing is given to you, everything you get, you fight
and work for."
Nofri said most of the people, including himself, who kept in touch with
Gorham were amazed by the type of attitude and outlook he shared after going
through so much in such a short amount of time. He had spent nearly 25 years
coaching and since his diagnosis hadn't been able to be around the program
until last week.
"Last Tuesday and last Thursday he wanted to come in see the place (the
office) and he hasn't been on campus since December," Nofri said. "I went and
picked him up and brought him in for about four or five hours each day. He got
a chance to see a lot of colleagues, coaches and players who were up for the
summer, they came in and visited with him. He said coming in and seeing
everybody was just as good as the day he came home."
Although many of the NEC's current coaches won't be able to attend the
fund-raiser because of conflicts with preseason practice schedules, Nofri and
Sacred Heart officials expect around 250 people to attend, donate and bid on
items up for auction. All of the proceeds will benefit the Gorham family and
their medical bills.
"For what he went through and to see where he is today, it is unbelievable,"
Nofri said. "It's a miracle, after talking to him one-on-one about some of the
stuff going on, and then to see him get home from Cleveland on a Wednesday,
then I pick him up the following Tuesday to bring him into the office."
The recovery process will certainly be a long one, but Gorham has already been
fitted with temporary prosthetics.
It begs the question, will he ever be able to walk again? Or will he ever coach
again?
Nofri responded without hesitation,
"Of course," he said. "He will do whatever he has to do to get around football
again because that's his goal. He wants to be around this program and coach
again."
For more information on the Sacred Heart coach's plight, visit paulgorham.org.
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Albany was picked as the preseason favorite by the conference's coaches on
Thursday. The Great Danes received the NEC's second automatic playoff bid last
season but fell to Stony Brook in the first round of the FCS playoffs.
Duquesne, which has been an NEC member for five years, shared the 2011 league
title with Albany, and was picked to finish second in this year's poll. The
Dukes' only conference blemish last season came in a 28-point loss at Albany,
costing them the automatic bid.
Reigning NEC Offensive Player of the Year and third-team All-America running
back Jordan Brown leads Bryant into its inaugural season of NCAA Division I
postseason eligibility. As a junior in 2011, Brown led all FCS players in
carries (329) and rushing (165 yards per game), but was not recognized as a
national statistical leader because Bryant was in its last year of transition
to Division I.
2012 Northeast Conference Preseason Coaches Poll
1. Albany (6 first-place votes)
2. Duquesne (1)
3. Bryant (2)
4. Central Connecticut State
5. Monmouth
6. Robert Morris
7. Wagner
8. Sacred Heart
9. St. Francis (Pa.)
2012 Northeast Conference Preseason All-Conference Team
Offense
QB - Sean Patterson, Duquesne, Sr.
RB - Jordan Brown, Bryant, Sr.
RB - Larry McCoy, Duquesne, Sr.
WR - Jordan Harris, Bryant, Jr.
WR - Ryan Kirchner, Albany, Sr.
TE - Tyler George, Monmouth, Sr.
OL - Steve Ciocci, Wagner, Sr.
OL - Justin Martel, Sacred Heart, Sr.
OL - Mike Murphy, Monmouth, Sr.
OL - Chris Willadsen, Bryant, Sr.
OL - Kadeem Williams, Albany, Jr.
Defense
DL - Tyler Foehr, Sacred Heart, Sr.
DL - Jordan Kelly, Bryant, Sr.
DL - Eric Macik, Monmouth, So.
DL - Nolan Nearhoof, Robert Morris, Sr.
LB - Lorenzo Baker, Central Connecticut, Sr.
LB - Kyle Jordan, Albany, So.
LB - Jon Morgan, Albany, Sr.
DB - Serge Kona, Duquesne, Jr.
DB - Cameron Chadwick, Robert Morris, Sr.
DB - Leon Saddler, Albany, Sr.
DB - Jeremy Woodson, Bryant, Jr.
Special Teams
PK - Chris Rogers, Sacred Heart, So.
P - Paul Layton, Albany, Jr.
RS - Jordan Brown, Bryant, Sr.
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